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May

Anonymous asked: I'm going to a party to celebrate my grandmothers 100'th birthday and I was wondering what to wear. The rest of my family/my relatives are going to wear suits and dresses. I dont wanna wear a dress and I dont look good in a suit. Thinking about a shirt and a vest with a bowtie or something like that. Kinda have a low budget 2. Any suggestions? Thanks 4 an awesome blog.

Assuming she is your biological grandmother, congrats. You have some GOOD GENES. I don’t believe you that you don’t look good in suits, because everyone does as long as it’s the right fit. Shirt + Vest + Bow tie is an excellent choice though. Since you have a low budget I’d first check out thrift stores in your area because you never know what might pop up. If you have more time, go back a few days later. The shelves rotate and new things will pop up. If you don’t have any luck there, Topman and American Apparel carry well-priced bow ties. I’m imagining you’d want a tux style vest; both the women’s and the men’s sections at Banana RepublicH&MTopshop/Topman, and J. Crew have them. For women’s button-ups, try the Gap, Banana Republic, and H&M. For men’s try Topman or Boy’s departments.

16

May

Single and Ready to Mingle

Whatsernamemn asked: I’m going out for my friend’s 21st this weekend and I don’t know many of the people going so I want to make a good impression/maybe meet a cute girl. I’m used to just wearing a vneck and jeans to go out, but I’d like to look a bit more put together while still looking cute and queer. Any ideas for a good outfit? I guess you could say I’m more androgynous than anything else. I wear a lot of button downs, bowties and blazers, as well as vnecks and such. 

Take one of you button-downs, bow ties, and blazers, and pair them with the jeans and some casual kicks. Mixing casual and formal pieces will make a nice impression without being too over the top. And bow ties are always a good conversation starter:

  • Girl: Cute bow tie!
  • You: Thanks! It’s Dyke Duds approved.
  • Girl: You read Dyke Duds?? OMG I love that blog!!!

See, I got you covered.

15

May

Seersucker Pants

Fouractual asked: Any suggestions on how to rock seersucker pants? I’ve got a pair that are light blue, and have been tossing them on with brown leather deck shoes and a white polo. Not exactly fashionable, but functional. It get’s rather warm around here during the summer. Help a fashion challenged dyke out. Hmmm, or should one just toss the pants and try again?

I love seersucker pants! And the deck shoe/white polo combo sounds fantastic. Even though I’m doubting your fashion challenges, here’s another seersucker pants outfit idea:

For inspiration. (source)

Oxford Blake - Boys 8-20 Shirt, on sale at Ralph Lauren for $34.99. See me wearing mine here.

Suede Officer Shoe, available at ASOS for $78.28

Suspender, available at Farfetch for $63.00

Blue White and Red Modern Plaid Cotton Self Tie Bow Tie, available on Etsy for $29.99

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07

May

asianwithshorthair asked: Would you recommend bow ties for a short person? I read it somewhere online and it said bow ties don't look good on short people but I really like the style ):

Why wouldn’t bow ties look good on short people?? That’s jus wack.  Prolly advice they give short men who want to appear taller. Do it.

23

Apr

Anonymous asked: I really want to start wearing bow ties. What are you supposed to wear them with and where can you buy some that are affordable?

You wear them with collared shirts. Bow ties can get expensive, so I’d first try thrift stores and ebayTopman and American Apparel carry well-priced bow ties. Handmade by Emy and the Belle and the Beau on Etsy make beautiful ties but they might be out of your price range. Check out the bow ties tag for more inspiration. And here are instructions on tying bow ties.

22

Apr

Anonymous asked: What are some various ways to wear short sleeve button up shirts?

  • Exhibit A
  • Tucked in
  • (link)
  • Exhibit B
  • Like this kid
  • (link)
  • Exhibit C
  • Over a T-shirt
  • (link)
  • Exhibit D
  • Open collar
  • (link)
  • What not to do:

04

Apr

Red Bowtie

Beatboxgoeshump came out with another Everlane product teaser. The bowtie with button-down and cardigan is such a hot combo.

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18

Mar

Cocktail Oufit

I attended the Keshet Cabaret last night and was excited to get to wear my new Topman pants again. I’d also like to note that I got new black socks from American Apparel and they are really comfy and well-priced! So I’d recommend something like this for your next queer cocktail party.

19

Feb

Peter Pan Collars, bow ties, and berets

Decked up in peter pan collars, bow ties, and berets, our Austrian-based friend Emma is going through a lot of popular trends right now in both femmewear and menswear. Any one of these outfits would be perfect for your next soiree.

YESS. It does not appear that Zara has this exact sweater anymore, though they still feature the style in these tops. Not what you’re looking for? Luckily, Etsy has 3,483 hand-made goodies with peter pan collars!

An example of successfully mixing pinstripe and plaid. Also, that bow tie… amazing. Armstrongs Vintage has an online store on ebay, linked to below.

There’s been a big trend lately of all black and white outfits (Janelle Monáe anyone?) Limiting it to these colors lets you play around with texture and ruching.

Follow Emma: http://ma-jeunesse-fout-le-camp.tumblr.com/

11

Feb

My First Bow Tie

The moral of the story is: wear what your girlfriend tells you to because she is always right.

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