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10

May

Working the Heat

Anonymous asked: I’m brazilian and it is very hot where I live, about 27°C to 30°C all year long. There is no such thing as winter, which means I can’t really work with layers. I like short sleeves buttom-ups or polos and jeans (as long as they do not accentuate my hips) and I wear them for work with converse shoes. I wonder if there are other clothes I could try. I am a psychologist and work with young people in a university, which does not require a dress code. 

Wow, jeans, converse, and polos to work? Sounds great! So it’s in the 80’s (F) all year round. Let’s get some dress shorts. My beloved Old Navy Bermudas only come in 3 colors this year (view this post)… but I have some from Banana Republic that I got last year on sale and they fit in a straight up-and-down way and have really nice fabric. I also can’t help but recommend the shorts from the store with whom I have been having an intimate love affair for the past 6 months:

Topman, dark pink chino shorts

I don’t think I mentioned how tucking in your shirt and wearing a belt can seriously rack up the fancy points:

ASOS black leather belt (only $21.81!)

Add some loafers (and don’t forget the invisible socks):

Bass Casell Black Shoe

Have you considered ties? Have I shown you my latest favorite?

General Knot Bedford Plaid & Japanese Indigo Chambray Necktie

Now, I know it’s hot. But you can still add a vest over your short-sleeve button-up once in a while (and tie!!), right?

Ralph Lauren Boys Cotton Cable Vest (See me rocking mine here)

A little inspiration from Topman:

Topman Smart Outfit 5 (link)

09

May

Beach Bum Swag

Anonymous asked: so, I’m going to be living at the beach this summer. I have no idea how to dress for 100 days of fun in the sun and surf. the longest I’ve ever spent at the beach has been about a week. and that was back in the day when I looked very much straight. I need to rock my lesbian beach bum swag and I have no idea how to do it.

Beach Bum swag, equipped with pick-up line. You’re welcome.

Hollister swim shorts

American Eagle Sunglasses

Old Navy Boys Tank Top

  • Girl: are you actually a lifegaurd?
  • You: No, but I’d safe your life.


H&M Hoodie

Reef flip flops

American Eagle Outfitters Rope Bracelet

Pacsun short sleeve button-up

Lanai Watch (it’s waterproof!)

Old Navy Boys T-shirts

24

Apr

Anonymous asked: Help! I need ideas for my summer swag!

Straw hat, available at H&M for $9.95

Jane Aviator Glasses, available at Alloy for $10.90

Plaid Woven boy’s shirt, available at Tommy Hilfger for $29.00

Boys Jersey Ringer Tee, available at Old Navy for $6.50

AE Classic Length Plaid Short, available at American Eagle for $34.99

Ribbed webbing belt, available at the Gap for $19.95

Docksides, available at Sebago for $95

Check out the summer tag for more ideas

18

Mar

Cocktail Oufit

I attended the Keshet Cabaret last night and was excited to get to wear my new Topman pants again. I’d also like to note that I got new black socks from American Apparel and they are really comfy and well-priced! So I’d recommend something like this for your next queer cocktail party.

09

Mar

dolphinlegs asked: What are some good places to get summer time clothing? I feel like my fashion sense goes down the tubes once it starts to get hot outside and can no longer layer my clothes.

I know what you mean. If you’re femme you can just throw on a summer dress but if you want to look androgynous it’s harder to work around curves when there are less layers. My favorite thing are boy’s T-Shirts because they fit me well and bring attention away from my chest (I’ve modeled a lot of Macy’s on here but just discovered Old Navy.) For shorts I really like Old Navy’s Khaki Bermudas. (I model both things here.) I also got some great men’s Gant Rugger shorts on sale, to model soon. For nicer occasions you can wear the shorts with a button-up with the sleeves rolled up and a tie. Ashley likes to buy jeans and cut off the bottoms and she wears a lot of tank tops from Urban Outfitters (see here). Oh and um… boat shoes.

19

Feb

Anonymous asked: I like Old Navy's boxer briefs. But Old Navy is owned by Gap, so I guess they're basically the same as Gap's? Just a different label or something. Not sure how that works. But anyway, they're super comfortable and 3 for $10.

Word. Yeah Old Navy is owned by Gap but they have different clothes so their boxer briefs could very well fit better. Link

17

Feb

Silas’s Metropark Frames and UK Flag Lids

Hey who’s THIS cutie whose Tumblr name references my favorite prehistoric reptile? Silas’s (andro-saurus.tumblr.com) outfits feature UK flag hats, big blue rimmed glasses, and “I love boobies” bracelets.

Like if you love boobies

11

Feb

My First Bow Tie

The moral of the story is: wear what your girlfriend tells you to because she is always right.

21

Nov

exhibitgay asked: just thought i should say, i've figured out that old navy carries men's skinny jeans that actually fit really well for those of us who don't like skin-tight jeans but also don't like a wide leg. plus they're pretty inexpensive, i picked up my last pair for $25. :)

Hey, this is great! Thanks! 

14

Sep

Dykifying for Fall

Natalie (http://nattyv.tumblr.com/) just makes me want to take a nice walk through the breezy fall weather and reflect upon the fact that I’m not in school. Since her glasses pop out, she made a smart decision to have more simple pieces in her wardrobe. Also, she is yet another example of a femme who looks queer by incorporating the accent pieces: vests and suspenders; two things every queer girl should have in her wardrobe. Slip ‘em on, and you’re instantly dykified. 

Her watch is from Target and glasses are from a specialty eyeglass place in Kansas. 

  • Black Button-up: Old Navy
  • Plaid Vest: Thrifted
  • Jeans: Gap

 

Photography by Meaghan McDermott

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